Women Date for Equity

What's up peeps? I know you all probably think you have crazy dating lives but I think I'm the King when it comes to meeting crazy girls. I believe this is the worst time for a guy to be single in Southern California. I say this because it has become resoundingly evident that most So Cal girls date for equity. I do not think they are actually looking for Love. I was recently talking with a personal trainer friend of mine who had recently gone through a breakup and she kept harping on the fact that her ex-boyfriend cheated on her 'after 2 years.' Why does it matter how long it took him to cheat? He could have cheated before and you just didn't know about it. Don't get me wrong I think it's horrible to cheat but I started to understand it really mattered to her how long they had actually been in the relationship. If he cheated 6 months in she probably could have moved on faster I suppose or in fact she may have been thinking I would have been 2 years younger thus being more attractive to would-be suitors. I don't know either way it's obvious that men and women most definitely DO NOT think alike.

In fact, some time ago while I was out visiting a client in a downtown San Diego high rise I encountered very sexy 30-something (closer to the Cougar side than the Puma) in a business suit with a skirt of course. Ladies if you don't know a woman dressed up in a tight business skirt is just as hot as a bikini clad siren. Something about the way those things compliment hips and backside just get me going! So I approached her in my shark suited and began to project my GQ vibe and she took the bait. But, something between that moment and when I actually decided to reach out to her went terribly wrong. She was apparently into some guy she just started dating and wanted to hook me up with her friend. So I did what any guy who actually values his time would do...I asked for a picture and this is what I got in response:

Deji:

Sure, I will work on getting a picture for you! But while I'm doing that, could you provide a few things for me?

• · A picture of you in front of your car
• · A recent Bank Statement
• · The value of your property
• · A copy of your credit report

Thanks!

Lol, clearly my mind was blown. All I was trying to do was see a picture of this woman before we wasted each others time but clearly a picture was not enough for the other party. As hilarious as this might be this brings up something real in regards to what men and women look for in a relationship. Most of the time they are very different things so take the time to find out what your partner or potential partner may want from you it may be the difference between a short relationship and a long one. Thanks for reading! Feel free to comment! Namaste!

-Deji